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Tuesday, May 27, 2008

School is in session


It seems like yesterday when I was in my classroom, Egypt, for the first time to attend orientation. I don’t know how time passed, but its been 10 months, and first year is gone.

When I started, a lot of people came to tell us how hard it was going to be, over and over again, we got this message of doom even before we started.

They didn’t lie. It was hard. I didn’t think of quitting (naija peeps don’t quit school, we grind it out), but I definitely remember asking myself if I wanted to go through this for another three years.

Every other week, I was bombarded with exams. The whole of my first semester was a blur, because I still don’t remember what happened outside of med school for those 5 months.

I thought I was smart, brilliant, intelligent, name it, and I would breeze by like I did in undergrad *insert chuckle*, however medical school was a different kettle of fish entirely.

Lesson 1: Med school is not about how intelligent you are
I learnt that after my first exam. Those exams test more than knowledge. I passed my first exam, but I know I could have done more. My “intelligence” and “brilliance” got me through part of the way, but it wasn’t enough.

Lesson 2: Its not about how hard you study, its about how smart you study
My, did I study hard during those first weeks/months? I had to learn how to study smart. There were people who spent hours studying and making good quality notes, then there were the people who spent half the time studying those notes. The latter group often did better than the former group. Needless to say, I jumped ship after my eyes were opened.

Lesson 3: have the right connections
I learnt this when Neuroanatomy hit! I was never a study group person, they were a perfect waste of my precious time- or so I thought. However, my study group became crucial to my success in various courses. I learnt Respiratory Physiology through them, wouldn’t have gotten past cardio without them. They were a lifesaver

Lesson 4: Questions!, Questions!!, Questions!!!
This was the pirates treasure, the pot of gold, the… ok, you get the point now. I learnt so much while doing questions with the study group of course, and when all else failed, I have been rewarded quite generously for looking through past exams that had repeated questions. I try to devote the entire day before the exam to doing questions- try is the keyword here

I learnt a lot during those ten months, not only about medical stuff, but about myself, people and life in general. for example:
1. I can survive on three hours of sleep, but six will do just fine.
2. Coffee is good, but Vitamin Energy has more caffeine.
3. medical related jokes are not funny outside the med school building - ok, maybe the hospital too.
4. Wikipedia is an official medical school textbook.
I especially learnt to stop and smell the roses. Take a few hours from studying and go see a movie. Sleeping in church while reading BRS physiology was definitely not the way forward.
I almost broke down trying to do it by myself. At some point (during neuro) I thought I had a sleeping disorder- I prolly did. My friends were quick to comment whenever they saw me awake in class. I knew I had reached breaking point when I was almost dozing off in the lab (even though I was on my feet, and it was interactive) and I had to fight to stay awake while driving back home in the afternoon!

I decided to let God take control, and I must say that was the best decision I ever made. Blogging was my release( for those who wondered how I still had time to blog) and having the bestest most understanding boo in the world was the icing on the cake!

I will remember the nights I almost gave up, and I will not forget the friends that pulled me through.

I will remember the times when I thought I was doomed to fail, but I will be forever grateful for those random AIM bundles of Joy that contained high yield-need-to-know-for-the-test information that got me through

I wil remember the times I spent slugging it out on my own, but my study buddies will always be close to my heart.

I definitely will not forget blogging during exam week- most of my poss were written during very stressful times. I discovered tinuke, carlang, overwhelmed and a few others while studying in the library

As I make my way into the second year class- the Canaan- I won't forgetg the process of getting there. one down, three more to go!

Thursday, May 22, 2008

Mummy, Hi

Kunle and I met in my first and his second year of college. He was the president of one of the campus organizations that came to welcome the freshmen. His organization was one of those helping the freshmen move in, and Kunle and his friends were the ones helping me move in.

During the move-in process, he found out that I was Nigerian and I guess that was how we became friends. In the several weeks that followed Kunle was on hand to help me with my course registration, procuring textbooks and even helping me shop for other items I needed for the school year.

At first, I thought he had ulterior motives, but he never made a pass at me- at least throughout that academic year. We had become fast friends, and I saw him at least five times a week in the school library.

In my sophomore year, I noticed that Kunle’s attitude towards me changed. He stopped calling me as much, and his library visits became few and far between. I knew he was a voiding me. I confronted him about this, and he later confessed that he had started developing feelings for me. He felt guilty because he felt it was inappropriate since I had taken him as an elder brother.
We started dating that year.

We were the ultimate campus couple. A lot of Nigerian girls on campus became cold towards me, but I brushed them off. Our love was perfect, nothing could go wrong. Even when Kunle graduated, we were still going on strong. He got a job with a top software company in a neighboring state, but he still visited me in school every week.

On my graduation day, Kunle proposed to me. I was ecstatic! I had been waiting for this day for a long time now. As a symbol of his undying love for me, Kunle gave me an eighteen carat yellow gold band with a huge centerpiece diamond.

As it was customary, Kunle took me to visit his parents a few weeks later. His parents lived in a different state, so we had to fly out to go see them.
His dad was a very pleasant man. As I had been taught, I knelt down to greet him, midway into the greeting, he came over and pulled me up “No, No, No, my child, get up, its ok” he gushed
He embraced me in a hug, and led the way in.

“Good afternoon ma” I greeted Kunle’s mom as we entered their living room
bawo ni, oko mi”1 she replied, not getting up from her chair.
Seeing Kunle’s mom, it was obvious she grew up in the lap of luxury. She was sprawled in a baby blue lace brocade gown. The gold earrings and accessories on her could easily add up to a few thousand dollars.

For the next twenty or so minutes, she grilled me about my parents, my upbringing, and even my extended family
ki lo ma je, my dear 2 she asked Kunle after she was done.
se ki won ba e ro amala3?” 4

With that she disappeared into the kitchen. I made as if to follow her, but she gently hushed me back telling me that a new soap was on tv and I should make myself comfortable.
In a couple of mins, she came back and announced, “Food is ready”.

We ate in the formal dinning room, and I made sure to compliment her cooking. After we were done eating, she came round to clear the table. I reached out to help her, but she hushed me aside, “you are our guest today, I don’t want you stressing yourself”, so I sat down and engaged Kunle’s dad in conversation.

We spent another thirty minutes talking with Kunle’s parents, before Kunle announced that we were taking our leave. We gave his parents hugs and left.

Two weeks later, Kunle called off the engagement.





1. How are you my dear?
2. What do you want to eat, my dear
3. Should they make amala for you?
4. amala – that black horrible food! I kid, yam flour made into thick brownish paste

DISCLAIMER: THIS IS NOT MY LIFE'S STORY- IT IS THE RESULT OF TOO MUCH TIME WORKING A JOB I HATE DOING. Writing in first person just flows for me!

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

Birthday gist

The much anticipated, much expected event of the year has come and gone- but we are still celebrating. Chris Brown is still celebrating his birthday so why shouldn't I?

I've always been a birthday person. When I was younger, I used to start announcing my birthday a month in advance to my dad and anyone else who cared to listen
"daddy, remember the happiest day of your life? May 14, when you laid eyes on the cutest baby ever? I remember too!"

As far as I'm concerned it should be a public holiday, I mean Martin Luther King gets one on his birthday, so why shouldn't I?

The day before my birthday was the day of my last set of exams, so I started my birthday at my class' End of the Year party. It was a house party and most of my class was in attendance.

I left the party with a couple of friends to go to a club not too far off. The line was sooo long (don't people have jobs to be at on wednesday morning?) We decided to go to another club. They had closed by the time we got there. After club-hopping to three other places, we decided to give up and party by the roadside! spent 10 mins doing that.

Tired but still excited, I got home at 4am. My phone had already started ringing- my parents, friends from naija, yanks etc

I didnt get too much rest cos the bloody phone wouldn't shut up! I always pick up my phone when I'm asleep, even if it justs vibrates *insert quick quirk*

Woke up in the late morning, and hurriedly made reservations for dinner. Spent a couple of hours with my boo- and got my gift from him (shhh! can't tell y'all what it is!!!)

hung out with my friends till it was time to leave for the restaurant. Had dinner with a couple of friends. Its hard coordinating naija people with yankee people, but we tried sha.

Decided to go to a lounge/club after dinner. The place was filled with white folks. gotta give it to those guys, white people know how to "attempt" dancing without too much grinding. It felt strange at first, but then I started to get into it.

Got back to boo's house at 2;00am and settled to eat kinishi (seasoned dry meat) with soda while I watched him pack.

Dropped him off at the airport and finally settled in my bed at 6:00am!

For TinTin who wanted to know what gifts I got: Boo got me a burberry perfume, silver earrings and a special gift, someone gave me a necklace with real diamonds in it, more jwellery, a beauty set, and SHOES!

so I got 4/7 of the things on my list in some form, way to go!

I'm really thankful for my friends....and tired of typing!

Wednesday, May 14, 2008

Double Deuces!



I won't grow up
I don't want to go to school.
Just to learn to be a parrot
And recite a silly rule.
If growing up means

I would be beneath my dignity to climb a tree,
I'll never grow up, never grow up, never grow up
Not me!
Not I,
Not me!
Not me!

I won't grow up
I don't want to wear a tie.
And a serious expression
In the middle of July.
And if it means I must prepare
To shoulder burdens with a worried air,
I'll never grow up, never grow up, never grow up
Not me
Not I
Not me!

So there!Never gonna be a man,
I won't!
Like to see somebody try
And make me.
Anyone who wants to try
And make me turn into a man,
Catch me if you can.
I won't grow up.
Not a penny will I pinch.

I will never grow a mustache,
Or a fraction of an inch.
'Cause growing up is awfuller
Than all the awful things that ever were.

I'll never grow up,
never grow up,
never grow up,
No sir,
Not I,
Not me,
So there!
I won't grow up!
No, I promise that I won't
I will stay a boy forever
And be banished if I don't!
And Never Land will always be
The home of beauty and joy
And neverty
I'll never grow up, never grow up, never grow up
Not me!
Not me!
Not me!
Not me!
No sir!
Not me!

*culled from Peter Pan



I love birthdays! but with every birthday comes age and the realization that one is growing up.
- the cake is for you guys, enjoy!




Tuesday, May 6, 2008

...and I'm not even a piece of clothing or dead body

but I've been tagged. I know I've done this particular tag before. I hate being tagged, it feels like school work and it sucks!

blame Lighty , *carlang, *honeywell, and unNaked Soul. for this

i. link the person(s) who tagged you...
ii. mention the rules in your blog
iii. tell about 6 unspectacular quirks of yours...
iv. tag 6 following bloggers by linking them
v. leave comment on each of the tagged blogger's blogs letting them know they've been tagged...

1. I'm Lazy. I think it is the bane of my existence.

2. I'm a social coconut: I can be introverted or extroverted depending on the situation or the people I'm with

3. I can be unnecessarily and annoyingly secretive. I should work for the secret service. Summer job?

4. I wash my hands after using the bathroom. Hey! the meme said unspectacular! FYI not many people do.

5. I love making lists... I make posts in lists, leave comments as lists...so that means I should technically enjoy doing this meme, but I dont!

6. did I mention that I can be whinny when the occasion calls for it? one time, I went to visit a friend, he promised to have me back home whenever I wanted. When I felt like leaving, he wasnt ready. As soon as I started my whinings, he had to tell his mom that he would call her back and took me home sharpish!

there! I'm done!! phew!!!

As I was typing this, a lot of Spectacular quirks were coming to mind, don't worry, I saved them all and only wrote about the unspectacular ones.

Now I get to unleash this horror on the following victims overwhelmed, incognaija, sting, allyurz, tininu, and nigeriandramaqueen.



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